My boyfrifinish of practically 10 months didn"t get me anypoint for my birthday. My birthday was about over a week back and also he did say happy birthday to me on the day of it (we couldn"t watch each other in perkid, however he was nice sufficient to message me it). But then the next few times he saw me newly he didn"t offer me anything? What"s weird is that a couple of days prior to my birthday, he initiated or hinted that he was going to offer me a current. But he never lugged anypoint up considering that then.

Honestly my friends and also everyone are making it a huge deal, however is it really? And if it is, just how should I confront him?

Thank you guys!

I"m not a materialistic perboy nor carry out I feel favor he is obligated to giving me a existing yet I"m just feeling crappy somejust how that he didn"t. Maybe because I gave him something for his birthday or bereason I feel prefer he doesn"t treatment about me?


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Most absolutely, tell him exactly how you feel. He requirements to know what you suppose. Maybe birthdays are not a huge point for him... Perhaps, they are not a large deal to you either however, it"s not wrong to suppose that he will buy you a little something, take you out, celebrate your day in some unique means...

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Redhead14


Posted August 26, 2018

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We do not really go out to dinner or occasions frequently. But what"s weird is that he has provided me a Christmas present prior to.

He has actually a job that pays well and also he isn"t precisely as you classify as not proficient. He has the majority of experience with girls.


 

 

He has most experience via girls.-- Perhaps you are seeing why he has actually so much endure . . . he does not understand exactly how to treat them.


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alphamale


Posted August 26, 2018

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be on the lookout, he might be getting ready to dump you


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Posted August 26, 2018

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be on the lookout, he might be getting all set to dump you

 

Not necessarily. I had a man dump me six weeks after buying me a $400 watch for my birthday. One does not always have anything to perform via the various other.


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Posted August 26, 2018

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Have you talked around gifting in the past? Gifting can be a tricky point in many type of methods. I am a gifter however I attempt not to go overboard on it (learned the tough means in many type of situations). Here is what I think of gifting as it applies to you and also your SO:

 

1) Holidays - I have actually been with human being in the past that hate holidays / occasions. Why? There could be a million factors why they carry out. If that is the situation, don"t mean to gain somepoint from him on smaller holidays, yet do intend a small something on a bigger one (Christmas, birthday, Valentine"s Day).

 

2) The type of gift - This is not a gold digger point, yet the type of gift matters. If he gives you somepoint helpful (ex. a blender) fairly than a romantic gift (ex. flowers) that suggests that he cares for you yet he"s not that significant about you. It also doesn"t issue just how expensive it is or is not. A guy that wants to show his love does it via a loving gift quite than somepoint valuable. Take right into account some things that might be an inside joke in between the 2 of you - Many type of years back my high school sweetheart and I provided each various other spatulas on Valentine"s Day as a joke from the Weird Al Yankovich movie UHF - and that"s fine, but with a serious connection one has to take things right into account. Sure sufficient, the love of my life provided me flowers on Valentine"s Day, by Christmas he gave me a cookie jar. We aren"t together anymore.

 

3) Nopoint at all - Does he say "I love you" or take you places anyway? Does he execute thoughtful things without tbelow being a holiday / occasion? If he does nopoint at all he"s expecting you to take care of things in that department, expecting you to additionally not acknowledge points, and also be okay through it. Are you okay via it? It doens"t sound like.

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He did acknowledge it by saying happy birthday to you on the day itself but he was unable to be tright here on the day itself. That"s excellent but ... Not great.